“How do I talk to my kids about the issue of kidnapping?”
“How do I talk to my kids about the issue of kidnapping?” We at Screamin’ Kids feel that the idea of kidnapping or child abduction should be introduced at the same time and with the same simplicity that you might discuss the issue of your child “getting lost”.
Parents typically begin talking to their kids about “getting lost” while out shopping, from the moment their kids take their first steps. This concept of “getting lost” seems to be talked about in a very simple manner and the fear that it may introduce to a child is typically not a concern. Maybe this fear is not addressed because we as caregivers understand that this inherent fear of being lost, can actually be a tool that acts as a reminder to children to be mindful of sticking close to the adult they are with. On the other hand, we hear over and over about the concern parents have about instilling a fear in their children concerning kidnapping. Surely we don’t want to frighten our children into a box void of adventure, but understand that “fear” or better stated “valid” fear, can be lifesaving.
Consider the fear that keeps you from taking the dark alley verses the well lit and well traveled route.
You can see that perhaps its not the “valid” fear that we should be so reluctant to instill into our children. And we should understand the value in “valid” fear.
So, “How do I talk to my kids about the issue of Kidnapping ?” We at Screamin’ Kids recommend keeping it simple, and introducing it early. For more information on the Screamin’ Kids approach, be sure to check out our e-book available for free with any purchase of our safety-tip reminding T-shirts.
Remember today is the perfect day to start teaching your kids about safety!
